Clean Slate Parenting 1 3/2/16 We begin. The art of clean slate parenting. The other day my son, AndrĂ©, who is nearly 10 years old, and I were talking about growth mindset vs fixed mindset. (Many thanks to Carol Dweck for her visionary book, “Mindset”.) I asked if he felt like he had a fixed mindset for any of his subjects in school. Because, I told him, I had a fixed mindset about other things (housekeeping, some yoga poses, zumba, earning money ) and I had a growth mindset about some things (parenting, sculpture, meditation, performing). We agreed that some parts of our life are bathed in the light of growth mindset and that some parts that were clamped down by a fixed mindset. If you have a growth mindset, you see failures as opportunities to learn and grow as opposed to final judgments about your character. If you have a fixed mindset, when you fail you have proved to the world that you are a sham and not worth anything. They are teaching the 4th an
BTW- Be-Tell-Write with Eleanor Scott A hybrid creative writing and improvisation class. Be in the moment. Tell and listen. Write it down. Repeat. Classes meet the 6:30-8:30pm Thursdays (every other) March 26, April 9, April 23, May 14, May 28 2015 @ St James Episcopal Church (Parrish Hall, downstairs) 4620 California St (at 8 th Ave) San Francisco, CA 94118 $35 for drop-in; $150 for the series Qs? Elscott920@gmail.com ***On the Thursdays we do not meet in person. There will be an online offering with writing prompts and homework. (Examples: 1.This week, watch people around you and describe a gesture that is hard to decipher. 2. Write down a crazy story that still makes you laugh. 3. Go to a café by yourself. Look around.)*** Trying to be present in our lives and not flee from trickiness is difficult and elusive. However, when achieved, what a calm, cool pay off. Studying the art of honest listening (improv.) and writing down exactly what you see, he